Discovering (and stumbling in) Paris — These are the rules of the game. All you have to do is follow the ball. He’ll keep reminding you, “follow the ball, follow the ball, where is the ball?” Where is the ball? Read more.

On keeping track of sexual histories and dating responsibly — In 2015, I was faced with a very awkward task. I had to list the names of all of the people I’ve had sexual relations with. Read more.

My personal journey to liberalization — I have become so good at compartmentalizing fragments of my identity. I started mastering the art of shelving my interests, into what is acceptable and what isn’t, at a very young age. Read more.